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VostromoScope – Leo

Wednesday, August 10th, 2011

By Greg (VOSTROMO


Ruling planet: Sol
Element: Fire
Symbol: looks like Marlo Thomas to me
Birthstone: Peridot

Of all the Zodiacal signs, Leo is the one people most often think they can identify. The Lion as a symbol of power, control and fearlessness is so common across global societies that people often unconsciously affix those traits onto Leos without any prior consideration. Famous Leos like Amelia Earhart, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Hulk Hogan and Connie Chung would seem to offer support for the Leo-as-power interpretation of this hairy sign. But lions, real and symbolic, have other traits which must be accounted for and assigned where not, perhaps, immediately apparent.

A few examples:

(1) Lions are inactive for up to 20 hours per day — applying this trait as a filter, the lives of such notables as Percy Bysshe Shelley, Jerry Garcia and Mata Hari make more sense (ok maybe Mata Hari wasn’t technically “inactive” but she was certainly lying down).

(2) Full-grown lions weigh an average of 450lbs and may eat up to 75lbs of food at a single sitting. That’s right, Dom DeLuise, I’m looking at you.

(3) Males, despite their superior physical stature, rely on females for their food. Yves St. Laurent? John Derek? Claus von Bulow? Bill Clinton? ‘Nuff said.

(4) Lions in heat will couple up to 40 times per day. *sigh* OK, here we go: Mick Jagger, Magic Johnson (indeed!), Wilt Chamberlain, Herbert Hoover…

(5) Females raise their tails to send a “follow me” signal. I almost don’t want to go there, but — oh look, isn’t that Shelley Winters by — uh, making off with — the canapes? Where is she… is that DeLuise behind the…

(6) Males mark their territory to “stake their claim” to certain lands. Does the name Neil Armstrong ring a bell? TE Lawrence? Napoleon? Mussolini?

So treat Leos with the respectful reserve their intense gifts deserve, but also the circumspection their more hidden aspects require. Leos make excellent friends and life partners (and also great, really just flat-out terrific jewel thieves) but may not be the best diplomats, hostage negotiators, or mothers-in-law. They are sexy, dominant lovers, but you’d best have your own health insurance. And toothbrush. And bring extra napkins, or wipey things. Towelettes, that’s the name.

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This month’s forecast:

It sounds insane, but I predict that “Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows Part II” will dominate at the box office.

John Boehner will look as if his tie is too tight even though it’s really a clip-on.

Don’t order the pate on the 12th, they ran out, it’s Fancy Feast.

 

 

Leo the Late Bloomer by Robert Kraus

 

Welcome To Leo’s by Rochelle Alers, Donna Hill, Brenda Jackson, Francis Ray

 

The Bum’s Rush: A Leo Waterman Mystery by G.M. Ford

 

Lair of the Lion by Christine Feehan

 

The Lion’s Game by Nelson DeMille

 

The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe by C. S. Lewis

 

Sherlock Holmes: The Adventure of the Lion’s Mane by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle

 

Bob Marley: Conquering Lion of Reggae by Stephen Davis

 

 

 

 

Book Lovers Day

Tuesday, August 9th, 2011

By James L. (JimiJam)

 

I have always been what we classify as “a Reader”.  Surely, there was a time before which I had not yet gained the ability as such, and, of that time, I do have a number of memories.  Once that most essential of skills was acquired, however, there was never again a time in which a passion for

photo by James L.

reading did not exist in my life.  Even learning to read itself was something to which I took with an inordinate amount of dedication; I learned by way of a series of phonics tapes, and distinctly remember, upon completion of one cassette, begging for the next lesson.

 

I remember the joy of joining what could properly be considered my first “book club”, receiving a steady supply of “I Can Read” books, beginning with the first in that series, Danny and the Dinosaur.  I remember coming home from kindergarten with my primer, running with it clutched to my chest, into my room, and reading it from cover to cover by the end of that very first day.  I remember my first sparsely illustrated chapter book, Albert in Wonderland, read over the course of several evenings in the time before bed.

 

Looking back on those days in such clear retrospection, it amuses me to observe the one thing missing from those memories: a realization that my love for reading was anything even remotely out of the ordinary.  Our school certainly made the practice seem normal enough, first through the Book It! reward program, then followed by Accelerated Reader’s points-based system, each requiring that we read a number of books each month.  Naturally, it seemed to me that reading was simply the way one was meant to use one’s free time.  It wasn’t until around the age of ten, by which time I had begun reading books like The Three Musketeers, that others took note of what was apparently an odder sort of habit than I had thought.

Kansas City Public Library

Kalocsa Episcopal Library

Even while I continued to earn puzzled glances throughout the remainder of grade school and junior high, it wasn’t until high school that I truly saw how uniquely integral reading had become for me.  By that time it had become somewhat impressive to a select few, who themselves knew an intense love for reading.  We would exchange titles or volumes which we had found particularly entertaining or educational, sharing ever-broadening horizons with each other.  When moving from one classroom to the next, I may have absentmindedly left the occasional textbook behind, but rarely –if ever- did I fail to bring along whichever extra-curricular volume I happened to be reading at the time.  I even had a deplorable tendency to eschew the required reading of my English classes for the sake of continuing my own literary selections.  This behavior troubled my teachers, and certainly had a deleterious effect on my grades, but I never managed to regret such decisions.

 

Yet, for all of this, I never knew the bibliophilic existence until years later, well beyond the realm of class and hall.  Though I continued to read with a voracious appetite all the while, I had scarcely three dozen books to my name during the years that followed my formal education.  My love for reading, and indeed for books in general, was not fully realized until one fateful day, little more than 4 years ago, on which a friend inadvertently revolutionized my world by asking a rather simple question: “Have you heard about this PaperBackSwap thing?”… 

 

As I now sit, surrounded by more books than I can reasonably count, having fatted my mind and spirit on the finest of literature, at times I find myself pausing and simply marveling, not only at the profound pleasure and fulfillment derived from this life-long obsession, but at the sheer logistics of having crafted a life that so revolves around books and their ocular consumption.  There are moments in which I can but stand and stare, virtually aghast at the size and quality of the library I now possess.  That there should be a day dedicated to Book Lovers is almost preposterous in my mind, as indeed every day in my world, as well as the world of the PaperBackSwap, is a day so dedicated.  And yet I am thankful for the excuse to expound upon my experiences thus far, to share briefly in the spirit of that which has shaped not only my life, but the lives of each and every member here.

 

Whether we read casually or obsessively, for education or pleasure, collecting our books or setting them loose upon the world once the last page has been committed to mind, we are all, undoubtedly, book lovers.  It is in light of this kinship that I find myself so often smiling – when my attention is not focused otherwise on the book of the moment, that is.  I wish all of you a most splendid Book Lovers’ Day, and, as ever, the very happiest of swapping.

 

Some books about the love of books

 

 

 

 

Memories, Musings and Miscellany from our MoM’s

Saturday, August 6th, 2011

Today our featured Member of the Month is Cozette M. (CozSnShine)

who was named our member of the month in December 2007


How long have you been a PBS member?  

Seems like forever in some ways.  How does one make so many friends, play so many games, swap so many books and have so many discussions in just 1,200 days or so??  Signed up on Feb. 05, 2007.   Don’t add up those days, I’m sure my math is spot on!


How did you find PBS?

I read an article about PBS in some magazine, wrote down the name and promptly forgot about it.   A few months later I came across the name again and here I am!


How has PBS impacted your life?

Wow! that is quite the question.  I guess it would be an overstatement to say that PBS has become my life, but at times it feels that way.  I’ve said before that PBS is more than about books, it’s about community.  I’ve found so many new authors and books I’d never pick up, before, in a million years.  But I’ve also found so many FRIENDS, who I’d never have interacted with if it were not for PBS.  People who do not think like me, who were not raised like me, who I wouldn’t have any reason to meet in real life.  But I come on PBS and here they are, the good and the bad, the caring and the UNcaring, the sensitive and the hard, the liberal and the conservative, the happy and the sad.   Those who interact with you and those who react to you.  People, people, people who make up the fabric of PBS and therefore, the fabric of my life.


What does PBS mean to you?

Paper back swap, what does it mean to you???  Good question.  It means I have a ready supply of both books and friends.  It means that I have support when I need it.  It means that when your loved one dies, there are hundreds that crowd around to surround you with love.  You may never see their faces but you always see their souls.

It means that in the middle of the night, when your heart is aching there is somewhere to go, somewhere to place your thoughts.  SomeONE who will hear you.

It means that I have a safe place to ask questions.  A place where I don’t expect everyone to agree with my ideas but where the majority will at least respect them.   It means that I can read and digest thoughts and ideas that are so foreign to mine that they shock me, and yet I can also value them.


Did you read as a child?

I was one of nine children, growing up on a farm in Kentucky.  We didn’t have much but we always had something to read.  I don’t remember my parents buying books when I was a child.   But we always had magazines and newspapers and books from our school.

Once when I was sick, my brother brought home my new health book, from my teacher.  When I went back to grade school a few days later the first thing my teacher said is, “I imagine you’ve read all of this already?”  She was right – I read it from cover to cover.


What was your favorite book growing up?

I’m not sure I had one.  Between the time I started junior high until I graduated, I read almost every book in our high school library.   I devoured them, sometimes so fast that I didn’t retain all the wonderfulness in them.  I remember going through a phase where I was reading about American heroes.  Our library has a set of books about them and I read them for weeks and weeks.


What is your favorite or most meaningful book read as an adult?

That seems to change as my taste change.  Certainly one of the most meaningful books I’ve ever read is  Banker To the Poor Micro-lending and the Battle Against World Poverty.   It completely changed my definition of poverty and changed my perceptions about it.

The Help, recently read, is one of my favorites.  Wonderful book with great insight into a world I grew up knowing about.




In Love and War by Sybil and Jim Stockdale will always have meaning for me as that introduced me to a world of POW’s that I knew little about.  I knew this couple in the later years of their lives but read the book long before then.





What are you reading now?

I normally only read one book at a time but seem to have several going right now.

I’m deep into Unbroken by Laura Hillenbrand.  Not an easy read, but one with a lot of insight and meaning.

I’m also reading a Christian fiction book written in 1946.  It is interesting how the genre has changed over the years.  Not My Will by Francena H Arnold.




Just finished Silver Girl by Elin Hilderbrand, a great summer read.

Just finished Medals, Flags and Memories by John and Stacey Holley.  This is the true story of the death of their son in Iraq and their fight to have the fallen soldiers brought home with honor.  Recently meet this couple and they touched me deeply.




PBS is a source of so much for so many.  I watch and see how people love Lester and Marilyn, how they support Abbey and her girls and how they cheer others on and it just touches a deep cord in me.  It still gives me strength today as it did on the day my husband died.

We never know where the words we throw out there will land and what good or harm they might do.  On PBS they do a whole lot more good than harm.  If this was just another book swap, I’d probably be long gone.  But it’s a community of many, each of which is important and is loved by someone.



If you have any nominations for Member of the Month, submit them to us here.  Your nomination will not “expire”–anyone you nominate will have a chance at getting Member of the Month if enough nominations accumulate over time. Each month the person who has the most votes accumulated when the Newsletter goes to press gets to be Member of the Month and gets a newsletter mention and a nifty MoM icon to wear on profile and forum posts with pride.  So go for it! Tell us who’s helped you in the Forums, who’s been a great swapper, who in your opinion is a credit to PBS.  We are keeping a list of all the nominated members.  Who knows–one of them might be YOU!

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National Champagne Day – 8-4

Thursday, August 4th, 2011

It’s National Champagne Day!

by Hunter S.  (Hunter1)

 

“In a perfect world, everyone would have a glass of Champagne every evening.”

–Willie Gluckstern from the book The Wine Avenger–

 

August 4th is National Champagne Day???  Is this the greatest day or what??  Some insist Dec 31 is NCD (well duh, New Year’s Eve), while in 2010 there was a movement to make October 28th the day of bubbly.   But after intense research (okay, 5 minutes cruising the Internet), I decided to go with the majority and so now August 4th it is.

What can I say about Champagne, except it’s the greatest thing EVER!  It’s truly one of the reasons I get out of bed each day.  There’s a chance I might get to have a glass of this fabulous drink and I don’t want to miss it.  Some people need a good reason to drink champagne as it’s thought to be more of a celebration drink, but National Champagne Day is a holiday in itself which gives everyone an excuse to imbibe in the bubbly!

Just think of it, we could have a glass of Champagne at every meal.  Breakfast, second breakfast, brunch, lunch, afternoon tea, high tea, dinner and evening snacks.  We could even do a Champagne picnic and shoot corks at each other!

Actual Champagne is produced exclusively in the Champagne region of France, but let’s not get picky.  If it’s a sparkling wine you have, then go for it.  Champagne is ready to be drunk when purchased.  It is at its peak and will not improve with further aging, so don’t save it for a special occasion.

Champagne was created by accident and was called “the devil’s wine” as bottles exploded or the corks jolted away, creating quite a stir and quite a scare and probably quite a mess.  Personally, I like to think of it as “Life Sustaining Liquid” or “It keeps me from becoming a serial killer” juice, depending upon what kind of day I had.  The dryer the better for me (extra Brut), but there are heathens out there who actually prefer sweet Champagne.  To each his own.

However, all should agree that champagne should be served cold in tall, narrow Champagne flutes.  And even though spraying Champagne might be considered a fun sport in some societies, I prefer not a waste a single drop of this precious liquid.

Let’s not forget the health benefits of Champagne.  Studies have shown that moderate consumptions of Champagne may help the brain cope with the trauma of stroke, Alzheimer’s, and Parkinson’s disease. The research noted that the high amount of the antioxidant polyphenols in sparkling wine can help prevent deterioration of brain cells due to oxidative stress.   If this is true, my brain cells are in tip-top shape!

No one drinks Champagne because they are thirsty; there is usually always a special occasion to uncork that bottle. We drink Champagne for its special aura, it’s taste, the bubbles that tickle our noses and burst in our mouth, and, of course, to celebrate. But, please, remember life is too short to wait for a special occasion to indulge yourself with this mythical, sparkling wine.

 

 

 

A few examples of books listed on PBS

The story of the visionary young widow who built a champagne empire, showed the world how to live with style, and emerged a legend Veuve Clicquot champagne epitomizes glamour, style, and luxury.

 

An instant guide to the world of champagne and how to enjoy it, with cocktailswith dinner, with recipes, and with quotes. Lots of sparkling information th at will help you save and serve.

 

April Liesgang and Caleb Shannon have known each other for just three short months, so their Valentine’s Day wedding at a chapel near the shores of Lake Michigan has both families in an uproar.

 

Faith Usher had a decidedly morbid personality. She talked about taking her life and kept cyanide in her purse. So when she collapses and dies from a lethal champagne cocktail in the middle of a high society dinner party, everyone calls it suicide, including the police. But Archie was watching it all and suspects it was murder.

 

BUBBLES GALORE! — Underneath her bubbly, carefree facade there was more – much more – to the champagne girl.

 

The reader is thus drawn into these tales examining the way technology complicates human relationships.

 

 

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Meteors: Magnificent Marvels at Midnight

Sunday, July 31st, 2011

by James L. (JimiJam)

 

 

The cosmos is filled with awe-inspiring spectacles on the most massive of scales: supernovas and nebulae, galactic collisions, radiant stars that easily dwarf our own, faraway planets only recently brought within reach of the astronomer’s sight.  For most of us, the opportunities to see such

(photo by Nick Ares)

wonders for ourselves are of course pitiably few; those of us who live in and around cities are accustomed not to a night sky full of fascinating displays unfold in slow motion, but rather the moon and only the brightest of stars, and glimpses of a few of our neighboring planets within the solar system.  So consistent are these extraterrestrial entities that we all too easily take them for granted.  Aside from the occasional lunar or solar eclipse, dazzling celestial events are, sadly, the exception, rather than the rule.  And yet, the universe has seen fit to grant us regularly scheduled viewings of one of the closest, most simple, and yet not so easily dismissed phenomena:  Meteors.

 

Approximately 1,000 tons of dust and rock enter the Earth’s atmosphere on a daily basis.  Particles no larger than a grain of sand comprise the majority of meteors as these specks skip across the outer reaches of the atmosphere.  While those who live well away from the bright nighttime

Meteor Burst courtesy of NASA

lights of the city may occasionally catch sight of shooting stars throughout the year, there are certain times of year in which the number and size of meteors increase to such an extent that even the city dweller stands a chance of observing a fleeting glimpse of a meteor’s path across the gaseous dome of the Earth.  As the Earth makes its way around the Sun, like clockwork its orbital path leads it through the lingering debris of comets, sometimes decades after their most recent passage, encountering these dust trails at the same point each year.  Several such phases, commonly known as meteor showers, pass with little notice; their source comets having been either too small to leave a significant supply of meteoroids, or having passed so long ago that far less material remains to noticeably increase the average nightly number of meteors.  However, there are a few meteor showers still productive enough to be worthy of note.  Of these, one of the best examples is the Perseid meteor shower, which takes place between the middle of July and the middle of August, peaking this year on the 13th of August.

 

NASA Science (photo by Peter Lawrence)

The Perseids, so named because the meteors are seen from Earth as radiating from the constellation of Perseus in the northeastern sky, are the result of the comet Swift-Tuttle, a massive object nearly 17 miles wide and traveling at an astonishing 134,000 miles per hour.  Swift-Tuttle last traveled past the Earth in 1992.  In recent years, the occurrence of meteors produced by the Perseid shower has been as frequent as an average of over 170 observable meteors per hour.  Sadly, this year’s shower is not predicted to present quite so grand a display.  The expected average at its peak is only to be 100 meteors per hour.  Confounding the skygazer’s view even further is the unfortunate coincidence of a full Moon occurring very near to the day on which the Perseid shower will peak.  For those willing to play the waiting game the evenings of the 12th or 13th, the Moon should set with enough pre-dawn darkness remaining to allow for a higher chance of seeing a few of those spectacular fireballs streaking across the sky.

 

While the peak day of Perseid activity may seem like a disappointment waiting to happen, all is not lost.  A new Moon on the 31st of July allows for a window of opportunity to see not only the pre-peak days of the Perseids, but the remaining days of the Delta Aquarid meteor shower as well.  So, if you happen to find yourselves out in the evening during the next few weeks, take a moment to gaze skyward.  You might just get a chance to see what the universe can do with something as small and seemingly insignificant as a grain of sand, as it sets the sky alight for the briefest of moments, glancing across the ceiling of the world.

 

 

Comets Meteors and Asteroids by  Seymour Simon

 

Stardust by Neil Gaiman

 

Meteor by Edmund H. North, Franklin Coen, Stanley Mann

 

Cosmic Phenomena: Comets, Meteor Showers, Eclipses by Gabriele Vanin

 

Comets and Meteor Showers by Paul P. Sipiera

 

 

 

National Ice Cream Day!

Sunday, July 17th, 2011

We All Scream For Ice Cream!!!

James L. ( JimiJam)

 

Summer is a season lived in defiance of the sun. The air conditioner gets its daily workout, cold beverages become mandatory, and places in the shade become the most valuable real estate.  Whether you’re on vacation or staycation, in the pool or at the beach, nothing says summertime like a frosty scoop of ice cream!

Be it hard or soft serve, cousins sherbet and sorbet, or neighbors ice and gelato, there’s no denying the value of a cold confectionary treat on a scorching summer’s day.  We love our ice cream on cones of all sorts and sizes, in bowls loaded with toppings, of flavors as many and varied as can be.

For those who enjoy each of the 31 flavors, and those who partake of only a few, July is National Ice Cream Month, and the 17th is National Ice Cream day!  As if you needed a reason to run out for a pint, here’s your chance to celebrate without shame!

 

Here are some interesting ice cream statistics to consider over your next cone:

More than 90% of American households purchase ice cream!

Over the course of a year, the average American consumes over 23 quarts. That’s almost 150 scoops each! 

More ice cream is eaten on Sunday than any other day of the week. Sundae Sunday!

In 2009, more than 1.5 BILLION gallons of ice cream were produced nationally! 

The 5 most popular flavors, starting with the favorite, are Vanilla, Chocolate, Strawberry, Chocolate Chip, and Butter Pecan 

The first ice cream parlors in America opened in New York city back in the 1770s 

The oldest ice cream company still in operation is Bassett’s, which was founded in Salem, NH back in 1861 

The Guinness World Record for the largest ice cream cake belongs to Dairy Queen, whose winning entry weighed in at staggering 22,333 lbs! 

The official consumption record for an individual belongs to Patrick Bertoletti, who managed to eat 1.75 gallons of Brooklyn Vanilla in only 8 minutes!

 

 

From the city that brought Good Humor into the world, let me be the first to wish you all a happy Ice Cream Day.  May your sundaes be cherried, your cones slow to drizzle, and may your hot summer days be both frosty and sweet!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The Joy of Ice Cream by Matthew Klien

 

We All Scream for Ice Cream by Lee Wardlaw

 

The Ice Cream Maker by Subir Chowdhury

 

Ice Cream for Breakfast by Leslie Levine

 

The Ice Cream Diet by Holly McCord

 

Sundae My Prince Will Come by Catherine Clark

 

Rocky Road Trip by Catherine Clark

 

Banana Splitsville by Catherine Clark

 

 

 


 

 

 



It’s all because of a book…….

Friday, July 15th, 2011

Interview with PBS Member Ivy (PBSmaven).

Ivy will appear on ABC’s 20/20 tonight, July 15, 2011 as a part of an episode about Kathryn Stockett’s book, The Help.

PBS:Books often have a tremendous impact on our lives, but rarely is such impact so significantly apparent as has been the case with The Help and our very own Ivy (PBSmaven).

Thanks for asking me to do this interview. I feel like an actual celebrity! lol

Back in Dec. 2010 I read the book The Help by Kathryn Stockett. The premise of the book is about the women down south and the maids or “help” they had and how they treated them. This took place in the 1960s just before and during the civil rights movement.

The book made me think about my childhood in NY also in the 1960s and a maid that we had growing up back then. Her name is Dorothy and she’d been with my family since my great grandmother…for three generations. The book made me think about how much she meant to me and still does and how much of an influence she had on my life. The book prompted me to write a letter to Dorothy and let her know.

After I wrote the letter I went onto Facebook and looked up the page for the book and movie. I made a comment on the page about how much I enjoyed the book and how it prompted me to write the letter to Dorothy. Soon after I was contacted via Facebook by a producer from ABC’s 20/20 show, Denise Martinez – Ramundo. She asked me if she could speak to me about the letter and the book The Help and of course I said yes. As the producer heard the story of my relationship with Dorothy she asked if I’d be interested in having ABC fly me back to NYC to have a reunion with her. At this point I should mention that Dorothy is now 85 years old and not in great health and due to my own health issues I’m not able to travel much. However, this was a once in a lifetime chance so I knew I had to take it or I’d never see Dorothy again. So on June 15, 2011, ABC flew me back to NY for my reunion with Dorothy. I was interviewed by two of the producers from ABC, Denise Martinez – Ramundo and Lynn Redmond as well as correspondent Deborah Roberts. You’ll have to watch the show which airs this Friday, July 15, 2011 to see how it all turned out!

PBS:  The Help by Katheryn Stockett has been a book that has had lots of people talking about it since the day of its release. Did you have it Wish Listed?

Ivy: No, actually I was so interested in the book that I have to say I went out and actually bought it! That’s the first time I’ve actually bought a book in years! lol I always get my books on PBS but this one I just had to read as soon as I could.

PBS: Did you enjoy reading it because of your life experiences and/or because it was a great book?

Ivy: Both. The Help was easily one of the best books I’ve read in the past year. However, having grown up in the 1960s and having the life experiences that I did brought the book to life for me.

PBS: Can you tell us a bit about the person you were reunited with?

Ivy: Dorothy is one of the most amazing people I’ve ever known. She was my guardian angel, my protector, my second mother…she was and still is family to me. Dorothy is very religious and always taught me right from wrong. Most of all, she taught me how to love. That even if someone has wronged you to still try to be good to them because you don’t know what they’re going through. So basically she taught me compassion. She is truly an inspiration. She also has a fantastic sense of humor and her laughter was contagious!

PBS: Can you share a memory with us?

Ivy: One of my favorite memories was having lunch with Dorothy. As a little girl I’d sit with her and we’d have lunch and just talk. I honestly can’t remember specifically what we talked about but I remember she would teach me right from wrong and how to be “proper”. To this day, that’s stuck with me.

PBS: How does your experience parallel the book?

The only real thing I can think of that relates to the book (not really a parallel story here) is that I kind of relate to the character Skeeter. I’ve always been the kind of person that can’t stand to see injustice or suffering and the way I grew up was that there was no black or white. People are people, plain and simple. Dorothy and her family are black, I and my family are white, yet I’ve always considered Dorothy and her family my family. To me, we’re all blood. The book made me think about how Dorothy and her family may have been treated by the world back then and it made me really sad to think that they might have been treated any differently then my family and I had. Recently I had a conversation with one of Dorothy’s daughters, Jacqueline about this and she told me that when they had gone down south back in the 60’s they did encounter situations with separate bathrooms for black people and white people, and her being a little girl she didn’t know what it meant and she went into a white bathroom. She said her father scolded her when she came out but she didn’t understand why. It still amazes me to think that people could have been, and in some cases still are, so ignorant and prejudiced. People are people. We all have a heart, we all go to bed at night, we all go to the bathroom, we all love. We’re all the same person.

PBS: This must have been quite emotional for everyone involved in the reunion. Did you cry?

Ivy: OMG did I ever!! I warned the ABC crew that I was a crier and to have tissues handy! I lived up to my promise! lol

At one point when I was reading the letter I had written to Dorothy, there wasn’t a dry eye in my house. lol My Mother, who hadn’t heard about the letter, was crying buckets, the producer was crying, I think even the camera man was crying! lol

PBS: Would you share an excerpt from the letter?

Ivy: Here is an excerpt from my letter to Dorothy:
“…For the last 15 or so years…I’ve kept a picture of you next to my computer and look at it every day. It’s a picture that was taken of you at the luncheon after my grandmother’s funeral. It’s the only picture I have of you but it’s priceless to me. However, I know that with or without that picture, you’ll always be in my heart and prayers as the woman I looked up to, the woman who loved me, the woman who protected me and the woman who never failed to make me smile.”

PBS: Was it difficult to locate Dorothy?

Ivy: Dorothy’s lived at the same address for the last 50 or so years. I had her address still in my address book and ABC contacted Dorothy’s daughter’s Barbara and Jacqueline to set this reunion up. Dorothy had no idea it was going to take place until the minute she saw me.

PBS: Are you planning on seeing the Movie?

Ivy: I’m definitely planning on seeing the movie!

PBS: Have you kept in touch with Dorothy and her family?

Ivy: Yes I have. I’ve spoken to both Dorothy and Barbara by phone and I’m in close contact with Dorothy’s daughter Jacqueline both on Facebook and phone. We’re closer now then ever. We used to play together as little girls and it’s such a blessing to be able to talk as adults. I’m so very thankful for ABC setting up this reunion. I never thought I’d see Dorothy or her family again. This has reunited me with my “long lost family” and it’s been such a huge blessing to me!

Dorothy's daughter Barbara, Ivy and Dorothy

PBS: Is there anything else you would like to share with us?

Ivy: Just two things;
Watch the episode of ABC’s 20/20 on The Help tonight, July 15th so you can see it all for yourself and….you never know where a book will lead you. Reading a book can change your life in ways that you never could have imagined!

PBS: Thank you Ivy, for sharing this wonderful experience with us!


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