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A Tale of Two Women…Reviews in Honor of Labor Day

Monday, September 2nd, 2013

By MIRAH W. (mwelday)

 

 

In today’s culture in America the Labor Day holiday has become synonymous with barbecues and enjoying the last of the summer weather before fall sets in.  I decided to delve into two books related to Labor Day for this holiday post and I ended up reading about two very different women.

First, the nonfiction.  ‘I Am a Teamster’ by Terry Spencer Hesser covers the life story of Regina V. Polk, an activist in the labor movement and champion of employee rights.  She died tragically at the age of 33 in a plane crash on her way to a labor meeting but in her short life she accomplished much.  Regina Polk entered the man’s domain of unions during a time when it was rare, and not always welcome, for a woman to possess a strong voice and confidence when dealing with labor issues.  Born in 1950 to poor farmers, Regina learned the value of hard work and the difficulty of living with little means.  She attended Mills College in California and became determined to make a difference.  She quickly became a fierce advocate for the union movement and everyone in the effort knew her name.  She gave a speech at the Local 743 Stewards’ Conference in 1981 and there was talk afterwards of the certainty that she would become one of the movement’s leaders; she was only 31 years old at the time.  Just two years later she would be gone.  With her larger than life persona, Regina was engaging, confident, and strong; she was a force to be reckoned with.

Now I turn to the fiction.  ‘Labor Day’ by Joyce Maynard takes place over the Labor Day holiday weekend and focuses on a very different woman.  In a small town in New Hampshire, Henry is preparing for another less-than-stellar holiday weekend.  Henry’s parents are divorced and all he really has to look forward to over Labor Day is the uncomfortable ritual dinner at Friendly’s with his dad and his dad’s new family.  While at the store with his mom at the start of the weekend, a stranger walks up to Henry and asks for help.  The man is bleeding and Henry is trusting.  Henry and his mother Adele take the stranger home with them only to discover he is Frank, a convict who has recently escaped prison.  What develops next is an odd story.  Henry and Adele become, in essence, willing victims and allow Frank to hold them ‘hostage’.  Adele and Frank develop a relationship that is romantic, dependent, and (honestly) strange.  At first Henry welcomes the distraction Frank brings and is glad to see his mother happy but then he starts to have doubts.

Adele is as different a creature as possible from Regina Polk.  Adele hides away from the public eye. She hardly ever leaves her house and she and Henry primarily eat frozen dinners because that allows for rare trips to the store.  She has only one not-very-close friend, no desire to be noticed, and doesn’t hold a steady job.  When she does need to make extra money she sells vitamins over the phone, a job she is not passionate about.  She is in such contrast to Regina it is as if they are two different species.  I wonder how the character of Adele would have reacted if she met the real-life Regina?

I really wasn’t sure where I would take this post for Labor Day so I went with two very different books that actually ended up creating an interesting dichotomy for comparison.  Then I started thinking about how different we all are as people and how we all have different expectations for our lives.  And even if we don’t agree with one another, our choices, the way we live, or the movements we support, we are all still people and deserve respect. Not really what I thought I would get out of this exercise but, no doubt, a valuable lesson to revisit.

 

Happy Labor Day!

 

Happy 4th of July!

Thursday, July 4th, 2013

Celebrate Your Independence!

By Mirah W. (mwelday)

 

Chances are some of you have seen the email that makes the rounds this time of year that describes what happened to the men who signed our Declaration of Independence.  Some of it is true, some is merely based on fact, and some is just inaccurate.  But one thing is true: the men who signed the Declaration put themselves at risk.  Some of them did lose their property, assets and even their own freedom.  When I consider my life today I am thankful to live in a society where I have the freedom to speak my mind and stand up for my beliefs and not risk my life in doing so.  I am thankful to live without someone else controlling the decisions I make.

But freedom is not free.  Currently, our nation depends on 1% of our population to protect our freedoms.  This is a big responsibility for a few brave souls.  These sailors, airmen and soldiers live with uncertainty, separations from family, relocations and stress we can’t fathom.  And they take on these challenges voluntarily.  They sacrifice for 99% of us every day of their service.

This year for Independence Day I challenge you to live your life to its fullest.  Celebrate your independence!  Show the signers of our Declaration and the 1% who protect our freedoms that their efforts are not in vain.  Place an American flag in front of your home.  Wear red, white or blue.  Do something you’ve always wanted to do but didn’t have the courage.  Read a book.  Watch a fireworks show.  Spend time with your family and friends. Go to the beach and listen to the waves.  Watch a marathon of your favorite television show. Thank a member of our Armed Forces for his or her service.

Whatever you choose to do with your day, remember there are millions of people in the world who don’t get the simple choices we take for granted every day.  Celebrate!  The men who signed the Declaration of Independence over 200 years ago would want you to do nothing less!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My Father, My Grandfather and Our Love of Books

Saturday, June 15th, 2013

By Mary S. (kilchurn)

 

 

I think my love of reading started with my father and grandfather.  I don’t think I’ve ever seen either of them without a book (or two) in progress. 

 

If you walk into my Papa’s house, one of the first things you’ll notice is bookshelves; lots and lots of bookshelves.  Each shelf is overflowing with thick memoirs of World War II, leather-bound tomes documenting the “War of Northern Aggression”, biographies of some of the world’s most influential political figures and a few fiction novels just for fun.  Papa has read them all; every single one-most more than once.  At 86, he can quote his favorite lines, rattle off battle statistics and talk about military strategy like a four star general.  The man still reads several newspapers every day. 

 

 

I remember Papa telling stories at the breakfast table.  More often than not, I ended up with a cold breakfast because I was so focused on the stories.  I loved hearing about Ringo and Sambo and their adventures with the Poopampareno.   Later I found that some of Papa’s stories were adapted from “A Treasury of Southern Folklore” by B.A. Botkin.  Papa gave Dad a copy for Christmas in 1982, his own copy had been a gift in 1951 – it sits on my keeper shelf.

 

Cross the creek and head to my dad’s house and the first thing you encounter when you walk in the door is an overflowing bookshelf in the foyer.  It is full of stories of cowboys, lawmen, and big game hunters. 

 

 

My dad has always had a love of the outdoors and all things nature (except for snakes).  Death in the Long Grass by Peter H. Capstick stared out at me from our bookshelf as a child.  The title alone scared me.  Our copy had a pair of eyes peering out through tall grass.  I used to think the book was watching me.  As an adult, the book became a primer on African animals.  I bet you didn’t know that the deadliest animal in Africa is a hippo.  I remember sneaking and reading Man-Eaters of Tsavo by Lt. Colonel J. H. Patterson and loving it, despite its rather gruesome contents.  Later, I don’t know who was more surprised; me or Dad when we watched Ghost in the Darkness together and he realized I had read the story from which the movie was adapted. 

 

As I’ve grown older, one of the greatest joys for me has been giving them books that I know they will love.  I have to admit that it has become quite a challenge to find a book that they haven’t already read. 

 

Maybe your dad would love a new book for Father’s Day, I’m sure mine will!

 

 

 

 

Memorial Day 2013

Monday, May 27th, 2013

Missing Dixie

Wednesday, May 22nd, 2013

by Lois N. (Booklover57)

Dixie, New Year’s Eve 1970

 

 

Way back in 2006, a request was made to me for a James Patterson book.  It was from Dixie in Texas.  About a week later, I made a request for a book from Dixie….and so our friendship began.

We started corresponding, first on the PBS site and then via personal emails.  We quickly became fast friends.  Our friendship continued over the years but the distance between our homes, me in NY and Dixie in Texas, made it difficult for us to communicate other than an occasional phone call.

Dixie’s 79th birthday, with her daughter Sandie

 

Our friendship grew as we each shared our lives. We shared our children’s trials and tribulations, sicknesses and marriages and even some sad occasions.

 

Dixie’s beloved dog Missy

More than most, we talked about our beloved pets.

The years went on and we continued our friendship, until we realized we’d both be in Las Vegas at the same time.  Once we discovered that, there was no question that we’d find a way to meet in person. That meeting took place just last week on May 9th, 2013.  We met at the Texas Station hotel and had a wonderful lunch together.  I got to meet Dixie’s two daughters and she was able to meet my 3 friends (who she already knew through my emails).  It was a great afternoon and something we’d looked forward to for many, many years.

 

As happy as this story is…there is a very sad note to it.  I returned from Las Vegas on Sunday and on Monday morning found an email from Dixie’s daughter…shockingly, Dixie had passed away on May 12th, Mother’s Day.

This was a blow to me as I had just had the pleasure of meeting her and now she’s gone.

I will miss her everyday as there was not a day that we did not communicate.

This is the a photo of Dixie and I at our lunch last week (she’s on the left and that’s me on the right).

Thank you PBS for giving me the opportunity to make a wonderful friend!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Note from the PaperBackSwap Team: Dixie D. (Dip) first joined PaperBackSwap on 2/20/2006. In a bit over 6 years, she mailed over 900 books! Dixie, we miss you too!

 

 

 

 

Musings – How do you spend your vacation days?

Tuesday, April 2nd, 2013

By Mary (kilchurn)

 

 

So what makes you spontaneously take a day off from work?  A big sale at your favorite store? A beautiful day that just begs to be enjoyed?  A friend comes into town unexpectedly?

For me, apparently, it is the release of the latest book by one of my favorite authors.

I’ve had the date March 26th circled on my mental calendar for almost a year.  JR Ward’s latest book in her Black Dagger Brotherhood series, Lover at Last was coming out.  In the preceding weeks, I had joked with co-workers about taking the day off.  Last Thursday, I began to seriously consider it.

I know myself very well, once I start a book, I’m not going to put it down until I’m done.  The Kindle version that I’d pre-ordered would be available at midnight and I knew if I was still awake when it came out, I’d start reading – and not stop.  So Monday afternoon, I peeked my head in my bosses’ office and asked him if he had a problem with me taking Tuesday off.  He looked at me strange and asked why (I have most of my vacation days allocated at the beginning of the year).  I could hear the birds chirping over the bizarre silence as I tried to figure out what to say.  Do I tell him the truth?  Tell him I have an appointment?  I opted for the truth which got me another strange look.  You could see him processing the fact that I wanted to blow a vacation day to read a book.

But it wasn’t just any book!  It was the story I’ve been waiting on pins and needles for – for YEARS!  It was the story I was terrified would never get written!  There was no WAY I could sit at the office on Tuesday and wonder all day at the fate of Blay & Qhuinn!

Luckily, the boss was planning on being in the office on Tuesday, thus any of my projects would be covered so my vacation day was granted!

I went to bed Monday night comforted in the fact that come the morning, I could sit in my recliner and enjoy!  It took me about 8 hours to cover 608 pages and it was SO worth the vacation day.  The story was all I’d hoped it would be.   I laughed, I cried, I raged –Tuesday was possibly the best vacation day I’ve had in years!

PS – Another of my favorite author’s books is going to be released sometime this week, originally scheduled for Saturday – I see another vacation day in my future.

 

Food Week – Chuck’s Lasagna Saga

Friday, November 23rd, 2012

 By Gail P. (TinkerPirate)

 

There once was a man named Chuck

Who would cut your hair for a buck

Though he was good

At cooking most food

With lasagna he had no luck

 

 

Grumpy, my dear husband, and I used to have the same barber. His name was Chuck. With a pair of scissors, he was a magician. Get him in the kitchen and – well, I’m getting ahead of myself.

A number of years ago, while having dinner with his father-in-law, Chuck mentioned that he made great lasagna. Well, his father-in-law replied that this was nice, but that he made BETTER lasagna. Chuck gently reminded his father-in-law that he was Italian and that everybody knows that Italians make the BEST lasagna. The father-in-law, being Sicilian, took exception at this. Well, after a number of “does too” – “does nots”, an oven mitt was thrown AND the Annual Lasagna Contest was born.

Great idea! But, who would judge the contest?

Chuck’s wife couldn’t. Her loyalties would be torn between the man who gave her life and the man who gives her love. So, they began to solicit neighbors and friends – but as they described the situation, those very friends and neighbors told Chuck and his father-in-law that they considered themselves to also be great lasagna makers and wanted to enter the fray. Great – now they had a bezillion lasagna makers. What started out as a simple dinner statement turned into the mother of all lasagna contests.

How did Chuck do? Well, the first year, Chuck made his regular lasagna and lost. The second year, he devised a new recipe: he cooked the noodles the day before and marinated them overnight in a “secret sauce”. The resulting lasagna was mooshy because the marinated noodles disintegrated. As you can guess…Chuck did not win…again.

For year three, Chuck developed a different strategy. Knowing that the best part of lasagna was the sauce and cheese, he would eliminate the noodles! He developed another “secret sauce”, threw in bread crumbs, and sought out the perfect cheese. Chuck figured the bread crumbs would soak up the juice from the wonderful sauce and combine with the perfect cheese to form a magnificently textured and flavorful lasagna. WRONG! What he got was a lasagna pan of goop…tasty goop…but goop none the less.

After loss three, Chuck gracefully “retired” from lasagna competition. He decided to just host the parties. And, his father-in-law…he NEVER did enter a single contest!

Now, that I have you all set for the really great lasagna recipe…here it is. How do I know? Well, first of all it’s NOT Chuck’s – it’s MINE and it won the very last Lasagna Contest!

 

Tricolor Lasagna

Serves 12

 

16 ounces lasagna noodles

2 pounds Italian sausage

6 cups spaghetti sauce

1 can black olives – chopped

1 cup pesto sauce

32 ounces ricotta cheese

24 ounces mozzarella cheese – shredded

Pour spaghetti sauce into a heavy bottomed sauce pan and bring to a simmer. Continue to simmer until sauce reduces and is slightly thickened. Brown sausage, drain, and add to thickened spaghetti sauce. Add black olives. Continue to simmer for 30-60 minutes. Blend pesto sauce with half of the ricotta cheese. Blend the remaining ricotta with half of the mozzarella cheese. Prepare the noodles according to the directions on the package.

Spread a small amount of spaghetti sauce/sausage mixture in the bottom of a deep lasagna pan. Cover with lasagna noodles. Spread a layer of spaghetti sauce/sausage mixture on top of noodles (keep 1 cup of sauce mixture in reserve). Sprinkle with 2/3 of remaining mozzarella cheese. Cover with lasagna noodles. Spread ricotta/mozzarella mixture on top of noodles (keep 1 cup of mixture in reserve). Cover with lasagna noodles. Spread layer of pesto/ricotta mixture (keep 1 cup of mixture in reserve). Cover with lasagna noodles. Spread reserved mixtures on top of noodles so it resembles the Italian flag. Sprinkle with remaining mozzarella cheese.

Place in a preheated 375 degree oven and bake until sauce is bubbly and cheese on top is melted and starting to brown (about 50 minutes). Remove from oven and rest for 5 minutes before cutting and serving.

 

 

Pesto Sauce

3 cups fresh basil leaves – washed and dried

8 cloves of garlic – peeled

3 teaspoons pine nuts

1/2 cup parmesan cheese – finely grated

1/3 cup olive oil

Throw basil, garlic, pine nuts, and parmesan cheese into a food processor. Pulse until roughly chopped. Add olive oil. Pulse until solids are well chopped, but mixture is not liquefied.

 

 

Spaghetti sauce

A confession – I used jarred sauce…a combination of 3 cheeses and roasted red pepper…but use whatever you like. Or, you could look for recipes in the following books available on PBS:

 

 


Lasagna: The Art of Layered Cooking
by  Dwayne Ridgaway
 
The Top One Hundred Pasta Sauces
by Diane Seed
 
Monday-to-Friday Pasta (Monday-to-Friday Series)
by  Michele Urvater
 
The Book of Pasta
by Lesley MacKley and Jon Stewart
 
Five-Minute Pasta Sauces
by  Michael Oliver